That's what friends do. Sometimes people are "Sorry is there anything I can do?" but they don't really mean it. They aren't meaning to be unkind, but it's more of social convention thing. Doing something concrete, like helping friend with a such a task is much more meaningful in the long run.
While it has been 16 months since mom died intestate(no will) the thing that has helped the mos IS the few who actually helped, even(or especially )little things like getting me to appointments
While it has been 16 months since mom died intestate(no will) the thing that has helped the mos IS the few who actually helped, even(or especially )little things like getting me to appointments